12 Essential Tips for Choosing the Right Dildo Size

1. Know Your Measurements: Length, Width, and Girth

When selecting a dildo, it’s important to understand the different dimensions and how they can affect your experience. Here’s a breakdown of the key measurements:

– Length: This is the total length of the dildo from base to tip. For example, our 11 Inch Ultra Real Dual Layer Suction Cup Dildo is 11 inches long, but you can only use about 10.25 inches of it safely. Remember that insertable length is often slightly less than total length due to the base or handle.

– Width: This shows how wide the dildo is across its broadest point. The Venom Silicone Dildo is 2.5 inches wide at its largest part. Width can greatly affect the feeling of fullness and stretch.

– Girth: This is the circumference of the dildo, often considered the most important factor for pleasurable sensations. Girth can vary along the length of the toy, so check the maximum and minimum measurements.

Always check these numbers carefully when you’re shopping, and think about how they relate to your body and preferences. It’s helpful to compare these measurements to familiar objects or use your hands to visualize the size. Remember that what looks manageable in pictures may feel different in person, so start conservatively if you’re unsure.

2. Think About Your Experience: Beginner to Pro

Your level of experience with dildos and other insertable toys plays a big role in choosing the right size. Here’s a closer look:

– Beginners: If you’re new to dildos or penetrative play, it’s best to start small and focus on comfort. Our Wolf’s Lick Silicone Dildo is 6 inches long and 1.7 inches wide, which is a good choice for first-timers. Look for smooth, tapered designs that allow for easy insertion and gentle exploration. Consider starting with a size similar to or slightly larger than what you’re comfortable with during partnered play or when using fingers.

– Some experience: As you get more familiar with your body’s responses and preferences, you might enjoy trying slightly larger sizes, different shapes, or textured surfaces. This is a good time to explore various designs that target specific sensitive areas, like G-spot or P-spot stimulators.

– Lots of experience: Advanced users often like larger sizes, unique designs, or more intense textures for stronger sensations. You may be interested in exploring fantasy shapes, dual-density materials, or toys with special features like suction cups or vibration. However, even experienced users should approach new sizes or shapes gradually.

Remember, there’s no need to rush to bigger sizes or more complex designs. The goal is to find what brings you the most pleasure and comfort, no matter your experience level. It’s perfectly fine to stick with smaller sizes if that’s what you enjoy most. Always listen to your body and prioritize your comfort and safety over pushing boundaries unnecessarily.

3. Take It Slow: Moving Up in Size

When exploring larger dildo sizes, patience and gradual progression are key. Here’s a more detailed approach to safely increasing size:

1. Start with smaller sizes and work your way up slowly. This allows your body to adjust comfortably and reduces the risk of discomfort or injury.

2. Listen to your body carefully and don’t push beyond your comfort zone. If you feel pain or too much discomfort, stop and reconsider.

3. Give yourself plenty of time to get used to each size before trying to move up. This could mean weeks or even months of regular use at one size before considering an increase.

4. Use plenty of lubrication to ease the transition between sizes. Different lubricants may work better for different materials, so experiment to find what works best for you.

5. Practice relaxation techniques and proper breathing to help your body accommodate larger sizes more comfortably.

Explore our diverse range of dildos to find the perfect size for your current comfort level and gradually work your way up as desired. Remember, the journey of exploration is just as important as the destination, so enjoy each step along the way.

4. Materials Matter: How Different Stuff Feels

The material of a dildo can greatly affect how it feels and how its size is perceived. Let’s look at different materials and their characteristics:

– Silicone: Known for being safe for your body, silicone is firm yet flexible, like our Venom Silicone Dildo. It might feel slightly smaller than its actual size because it’s soft and gives a bit. Silicone is easy to clean, doesn’t cause allergies, and works well with water-based lubricants.

– TPE/TPR: These materials are very soft and squishy, as seen in our 11 Inch Ultra Real Dual Layer Dildo. They can feel less scary even in larger sizes because they’re so bendy. However, they have tiny holes that can trap bacteria, so you need to clean them very carefully.

– Hard materials (like glass or metal): These can feel bigger than they actually are because they don’t squish or bend. They offer unique feelings like temperature play and are very smooth, but you need to be more careful when using them.

– Dual-density silicone: This material has a firm inside with a softer outside, feeling more like real skin. It gives a good mix of firmness for easy insertion and softness for comfort.

When picking a size, think about how the material might change how it feels. A softer material might let you comfortably use a bigger size, while a harder material might feel more intense even if it’s smaller. Also, consider how different materials work with lubricants and how easy they are to clean and take care of.

5. Your Body Knows Best: Finding What Fits You

Understanding and respecting your unique body is crucial when selecting the right dildo size. Here’s a closer look at things to consider:

– Body differences: Everyone’s body is different, so what works for one person may not be ideal for another. Think about things like how deep and wide your vagina or anus is, as well as any physical sensitivities or conditions you might have.

– Sensitive spots: Think about which parts of your body you want to stimulate. For G-spot or P-spot play, you might prefer a curved or angled dildo, while for deep penetration, a longer, slimmer design might be better.

– Personal comfort: Pay attention to what feels good and comfortable for you. Some people enjoy feeling very full or stretched, while others prefer a more gentle sensation.

– Physical fitness: How strong your pelvic floor muscles are and how flexible you are can affect what sizes feel comfortable. Regular Kegel exercises can help improve muscle strength and control.

– How you’ll use it: Think about whether you’ll be using the dildo alone, with a partner, or in a harness, as this can affect the ideal size and shape.

Our wide range of dildos suits all body types and preferences. Remember, there’s no “normal” or “ideal” size – the best dildo is the one that brings you the most pleasure and comfort.

6. Width vs. Length: What Matters More?

When thinking about dildo size, it’s important to understand how width and length feel different:

– Width: This creates a feeling of fullness and stretches the opening of the vagina or anus. It stimulates nerve endings in these areas, which can feel really good. For many people, width is more important for overall satisfaction.

– Length: A longer dildo allows for deeper penetration and can reach sensitive spots deep inside. However, not everyone enjoys or needs deep penetration to feel good.

Our Power Zinger Dual Ended Silicone Vibrator offers both options, letting you try different widths and lengths to find what you like best.

When choosing between width and length, think about:
– Your body and how deep you can comfortably take something
– Whether you enjoy feeling full or prefer targeted stimulation
– Any specific sensitive spots you want to reach
– Your experience level and comfort with different sizes

Remember, a wider toy doesn’t have to be longer, and vice versa. Focus on finding a combination that feels good for your body and gives you the sensations you enjoy most.

7. Safety First: Choosing a Size That’s Comfy and Safe

Putting safety first when picking a dildo size is really important for a good and healthy experience. Here’s a closer look at safety things to think about:

1. Never force a size that doesn’t feel comfortable. Pushing too far can cause pain, discomfort, or even injury.

2. Use plenty of good, body-safe lube. This reduces friction, makes things more comfortable, and helps prevent tiny tears or irritation.

3. Choose materials that are safe for your body, like medical-grade silicone, which doesn’t have tiny holes and is easy to clean. Avoid materials with holes that can trap bacteria.

4. Start with short sessions and slowly increase how long you use it as you get more comfortable with a new size or shape.

5. Pay attention to the base of the dildo, especially for anal play. Make sure it has a flared base to prevent it from getting lost inside your body.

6. Clean your dildo thoroughly before and after each use to keep things hygienic and prevent infections.

7. If you feel any pain, bleeding, or unusual discomfort, stop right away and talk to a doctor if needed.

8. Consider using a size slightly smaller than you think you can handle, especially when trying a new shape or material.

Remember, our dildo collection is designed with your safety and pleasure in mind. Always put your well-being first instead of trying to push your limits unnecessarily.

8. Measuring Tips: How to Find Your Size

Accurate measurements can help you find the perfect dildo size. Here are some tips for measuring:

1. Use clean fingers or a smooth, body-safe object for internal measurements. Wash your hands well and trim your nails to avoid discomfort or injury.

2. Measure when you’re aroused, as your body is more relaxed and open. This gives a better idea of what size you can comfortably handle during play.

3. For depth, gently insert your fingers or a safe object until you feel resistance or discomfort. Mark this point and measure the insertable length.

4. For width, use your fingers to see how many you can comfortably insert. Measure around these fingers at their widest point.

5. If measuring for anal use, be extra gentle and use plenty of lube. Start with just one finger and go slowly.

6. Consider using a tape measure to get exact measurements around objects you find comfortable.

7. Keep notes on your measurements and what you like to help guide future purchases and understand your changing preferences.

8. Remember that how aroused you are can affect how much you can take, so what feels comfortable during measurement might be different during actual play.

These measurements will help you navigate our diverse dildo selection more confidently, ensuring you choose a size that’s right for your body.

9. Partner Play: Picking Sizes for Two

Choosing a dildo for partner play requires open talk and thinking about both people’s likes and comfort levels. Here’s a more detailed approach:

– Have an honest conversation about what sizes you both enjoy and any worries you might have. This can help build trust and ensure a good experience for both partners.

– Consider flexible options like our 10X Silexpan Vibrating 6 and 7 Inch Double Dildo, which has different sizes on each end to suit different preferences.

– Start with a size that’s comfortable for the less experienced partner, focusing on mutual enjoyment rather than pushing limits.

– Be willing to try different sizes, shapes, and textures. What works for one partner might not work for the other, so having a variety can make your shared experiences better.

– Consider if it will fit in a harness if you plan to use the dildo for strap-on play. Make sure the base works with your harness and is comfortable for the wearer.

– Discuss how you plan to use the dildo together. Will it be for penetrating one partner, mutual use, or as part of foreplay? This can influence the ideal size and shape.

– Remember that preferences can change over time, so be open to talking about it again and trying new things as your relationship grows.

Remember, exploring toys together can improve intimacy and communication in your relationship. The process of choosing and using a dildo together can be a bonding experience that brings you closer as a couple.

10. Special Shapes: Understanding Fantasy and Textured Dildos

Fantasy and textured dildos offer unique sensations but need special thought when it comes to size selection:

– Texture can greatly affect how a dildo feels. Ridges, bumps, or swirls can make a dildo feel bigger than its actual measurements suggest. Start with gentler textures before exploring more pronounced ones.

– Fantasy shapes often have different widths along the length. Pay attention to the widest point and think about how the shape might feel during insertion and thrusting.

– Use extra lube with textured or fantasy designs. This helps reduce friction and enhances the sensations from the unique shapes.

– Consider how firm the material is along with the texture. Softer materials may make intense textures easier to handle, while firmer materials can make the sensations stronger.

– Be prepared to take things slowly when using these designs. The unique shapes and textures might need more careful insertion and gentle exploration.

– Think about cleaning and care. Some intricate textures or shapes may need extra attention during cleaning to ensure proper hygiene.

Our Venom Silicone Dildo is a good example of a fantasy design with varied textures and sizes along its length. When exploring these unique designs, start with shorter sessions and listen closely to how your body responds.

11. Building Your Collection: Trying Different Sizes

As you gain more experience and understanding of your preferences, you might want to explore a range of sizes. Here’s a guide to building a diverse dildo collection:

1. Start with a beginner-friendly size that feels comfortable and not scary. This sets a starting point for your preferences.

2. Gradually add slightly larger or differently shaped dildos. Look for small increases in width or length to explore new sensations safely.

3. Include various materials and textures in your collection. This lets you experience how different materials feel at similar sizes.

4. Don’t rush – take time to fully enjoy and understand each size before moving to the next. This patient approach helps you avoid pushing beyond your comfort zone too quickly.

5. Consider including special shapes or designs that target specific sensitive spots, like G-spot or P-spot stimulators.

6. Add variety in firmness levels. Softer dildos might allow for larger sizes, while firmer ones can provide more intense sensations even at smaller sizes.

7. Think about including dildos with extra features like suction cups or vibration capabilities to expand your play options.

8. Keep notes on what you enjoy about each toy to guide future purchases and help you understand your changing preferences.

Explore our wide range of dildos to build a collection that caters to all your desires and curiosities. Remember, a good collection isn’t about having the most toys, but about having a variety that brings you the most pleasure and satisfaction.

12. Listen to Your Body: The Best Guide for Picking Sizes

Your body’s responses and sensations are the most reliable indicators when choosing the right dildo size. Here’s a more detailed look at this important aspect:

– Pay close attention to what feels good: Notice the sensations that bring you the most pleasure. Is it a feeling of fullness, deep penetration, or gentle stimulation? Use these insights to guide your size choices.

– Don’t push past what’s comfortable: Discomfort or pain is your body’s way of saying something isn’t right. Respect these signals and adjust accordingly.

– Be patient with how your body responds: Your capacity and preferences may change over time. What feels intense now might become more comfortable with practice, or you might find that you prefer smaller sizes for certain types of play.

– Remember that arousal levels affect comfort: What feels good when you’re highly aroused might be uncomfortable when you’re less excited. Consider this when choosing sizes for different scenarios.

– Notice how your body reacts after play: Pay attention to how you feel after using different sizes. Any soreness or discomfort could mean that you need to adjust your choices.

– Consider your overall physical state: Things like stress, menstrual cycle, or general health can affect your body’s receptiveness to different sizes.

Whether you’re using a small toy like our 28X Nubbed Silicone Vibrating Egg or a larger dildo, always prioritize your comfort and pleasure. Your body’s feedback is the most valuable guide in your journey of sexual exploration.

Wrapping Up: Finding Your Perfect Fit

Selecting the ideal dildo size is a personal journey that involves understanding your body, respecting your limits, and exploring your preferences. By following these tips and exploring our diverse product range, you’re well-equipped to find the perfect fit for your needs and desires.

Remember that comfort, safety, and pleasure should always be your top priorities. There’s no “one-size-fits-all” approach to dildos – what matters most is finding what works best for you. Don’t be afraid to experiment, but always listen to your body and go at a pace that feels right.

At Naughty O, we’re committed to helping you explore your sexuality safely and enjoyably. Our wide selection of dildos and sex toys is designed to cater to all preferences and experience levels. Whether you’re a beginner starting with smaller sizes or an experienced user looking for new sensations, we have options to suit your needs.

Keep in mind that preferences can change over time, so be open to revisiting your choices and trying new things as you become more familiar with your body and desires. The journey of sexual exploration is ongoing, and finding the right dildo size is just one part of that exciting adventure.

Explore our full range of dildos and sex toys to find your perfect match and start a journey of pleasure and self-discovery. Remember, the best toy is the one that makes you feel good, comfortable, and confident in your sexual expression.